On This Day - June 22nd

On This Day...

1687 - Death: Allis Butcher, Bucks County, Pennsylvania

1724 - Death: Thomas Finson, Fox Harbor, Penobscot County, Maine

1824 - Birth: Mary Jane Booker,

1835 - Birth: Henry Austin, Sheffield, Lorain County, Ohio

1894 - Death: Carrie Belle East,

1898 - Birth: Albert Marth Hengel, Saint Joseph, Stearns County, Minnesota

1905 - Residence: Peter Hubert Ludwig, Krain

1905 - Residence: Henry Ludwig, Krain

1905 - Residence: Joseph W. Middendorf, Millwood

1905 - Residence: Friedrich Henry Middendorf, Millwood

1905 - Residence: Eurelia Middendorf, Millwood

1905 - Residence: Maria Westendorf, Millwood

1905 - Residence: Henry Middendorf, Millwood

1915 - Death: Nicholas John Steichen, Maine Prairie Township, Stearns County, Minnesota

1924 - Death: Sarah Jane Higginbotham,

1925 - Death: Johanna Sophia Augusta Andert, Belle Plaine, Scott, Minnesota

2001 - Death: Celestine Michael Zwilling, Waite Park, Stearns County, Minnesota

 
Also on this day, the birth of my spouse.  Happy birthday, dear!

Also on this day, the day and year of this posting, the marriage of my niece, Jenna Marie Schmitt, to her fiance' David Feeney.  Congratulations, you two!  I need to talk with David about adding his family line...


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Wedding Wednesday - Robert Lee Dillman & Kitty Kay McCarter Wedding

Wedding Wednesday...

 

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52 Weeks of Personal Genealogy & History - Weddings

Week 35: Weddings. Tell us about your wedding. You may also talk about your future wedding, the wedding of a relative or shape this question to fit your own life experience.

Wow.  I started this, then got sidetracked.  Then decided I wanted to do a bit more with it than just write a brief narrative.  Then got sidetracked some more.  Now it's the end of the year, and this is the last of the 52 Weeks series I have not done. 


I was married in July of 1987.  July 3rd, to be specific.  My fiance and I had been dating for about four and a half years at that point, and got engaged the previous winter, at Christmas time.  In fact, we got her ring the same night I went and spoke to the Navy recruiters about the possibility of enlisting.  I told them I was holding out for a particular job specialty, Photographer's Mate, that was relatively small and hard to get into.  They said they'd let me know if anything came along, but they weren't optimistic.

Funny, but they called me back within a couple of months, and things worked fast, causing me to enlist and go to Boot Camp in February, well before we were ready to get married.  We knew we were aiming at summer of 1987, moving it up to February wasn't going to happen.  So I left for Boot Camp, and she continued to plan the wedding.

Mom and Me, Boot Camp graduation 

 

Apr 1987, Orlando, FL

Boot Camp graduation was in mid-April.  She came to see me graduate, with my mother.  That was followed by more time in Photography School in Pensacola, Florida.  Now, when you're enlisted, you are required to get permission to get married.  This involves a series of interviews and discussions with your chain of command, getting a signature from each in turn.  It's really a formality, but each one tries to give you a realistic picture of being married while in the military, which has a much higher divorce rate than the rest of society.  It's hard. 

Needless to say, while I was taking care of this, my fiance was planning the wedding details.  Communication during Boot Camp was very limited - a few phone calls and occasional mail.  "A" School in Pensacola was better - I could phone home daily, if desired - but she was still left with the bulk of the work and planning.

I graduated from that school on, if memory serves, July 1st.  Our wedding was planned for July 3rd.  I flew home to a whirlwind of final preparations.  One thing that made it easier, we were planning to hold our ceremony in a local city park on the bank of the Mississippi River.  A little last minute decorating on the morning of, and we were set on that score.  Our officiant, a friend of my parents who is an ordained minister, was set to do the ceremony, and had arrived.  We were holding our reception in a restaurant downtown, so some last minute decorating was in order there, as well.  One of my future sisters-in-law made the cake. 

To make an already long story a bit shorter, the Day came, the weather was (thankfully!) beautiful, and a wedding happened in the park. After the ceremony, we were whisked off to our downtown reception via horse-drawn carriage, to a restaurant that is one of the historic buildings and business establishments for the city, having been in existence since the 1880's.  We couldn't have asked for a better day, everything came together as if it were just meant to be.  As we're still married, I think it might have been...

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Fearless Females - Marriage Records

March 4 — Do you have marriage records for your grandparents or great-grandparents? Write a post about where they were married and when. Any family stories about the wedding day? Post a photo too if you have one.

Alas, marriage records are documents I do not yet have for my grandparents or great-grandparents.  Even marriage photos are scarce.  I do have this one of my paternal grandparents:

Estel Elmer Dillman and Alta May Day, married 02 Feb 1931 in Beadle County, South Dakota.

Estel and Alta were married in Beadle County, South Dakota, probably in Huron.  Alta lived with her father at Sheffield, a few miles away, and after they were wed, the couple built a small house on the south end of the Clyde W. Day farm at Sheffield.   They lived in that house until WWII when Estel re-enlisted in the Navy, and Alta moved back in with her father.  The little house was torn down to re-use the materials.

The picture was hand colored by my grandmother.  She did that with a number of portraits, more of which I will be sharing in future posts.